SINGAPORE KISSING
Vaginal stimulation of the penis.The Singapore Grip – also known as Pompoir or Kabzah – involves the woman using her vaginal muscles to stimulate the man’s penis during intercourse, while both remain stationary.You’ll be shocked to find out..........Pompoir techniques involve specific exercises using vaginal and pelvic floor muscles to enhance sexual pleasure and pelvic health. These techniques, often described as "vaginal kung fu" or "yoni yoga," focus on strengthening and controlling these muscles through various movements. Key techniques include pulling, pushing, and pulsing motions, which can be used to improve
What Are Pompoir Exercises?
First things first. There’s very little, if not any, research confirming the effectiveness of Pompoir exercises. That being said, personal anecdotes and experiences matter, especially when it comes to sexual pleasure. Pompoir exercises are typically discussed in a cis-hetero context, aka man and women. To be as inclusive as possible, we’re going to instead use terms like ‘the person being penetrated, and the penetrator.’ While these may not be the sexiest terms, they create inclusivity, because not everyone who penetrates has a penis. They may be doing it with a dildo or toy, and also have a vagina themself.
Pompoir exercises are used to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle for and during sex for intense orgasms both for the person being penetrated, and for the person penetrating (if they have a penis). Supposedly, Pompoir exercises date back to ancient Indian tantra over 3,000 years ago and were widely practised in Japan and Thailand. In Arabic, Pompoir exercises are called ‘Kabazza’, and they’re also sometimes called ‘Singapore’s Kiss’. This set of exercises are done during intercourse, whether that’s with a penis or a sex toy, and demands more control over the pelvic floor and pubococcygeus (PC) muscles (inside the vagina) than your standard Kegels.
Benefits of Pompoir :
ExercisesPompoir is considered sexual exercises done with the intention to increase the power and length of orgasms for both people involved. Because the person being penetrated is doing most of the moving, in a cis-hetero relationship, this puts the power back into the hands of the female, which can be empowering and shake up traditional gender dynamics. Teachers of Pompoir exercises claim they can help people with vaginas feel all different kinds of orgasms including vaginal, g-spot, cervical, and uterine orgasms. Again there’s no scientific evidence that these kinds of separate orgasms exist, outside of anecdotal evidence. They may even help people be able to squirt!
How to Do Pompoir :
Exercises Pompoir exercises aren’t just a matter of squeezing the vagina during sex. These are very old techniques that have been refined over the years. It’s necessary to have the strength to do a Kegel before starting Pompoir, but Pompoir and Kegels are not the same. The pulling motion involved in doing a Kegel is part of Pompoir, but Pompoir also involves pulling, pushing, and isolating different areas of the vagina. Before you start practising Pompoir exercises with a partner, you’ll want to make sure you’re both properly aroused, warmed up, and lubricated. Don’t be afraid to use lube to help you out!
Pompoir is typically done with the person being penetrated on top, AKA cowgirl style. The person with a penis or the penetrator lies still and waits for the magic to happen. They can have a few gentle thrusts to warm up before laying still.
Ride The Elevator
One of the foundational Pompoir exercises is called the elevator. You can practice this one outside of sex first, like sitting on the toilet after you’ve gone pee. Here’s how you do it :
- Bear down like you’re pushing something out
- Slowly do a kegel motion to pull up while counting to five
- Now pull in as hard as you can
- Now slowly do a five-count to push back down again
- Do this ten times or as many times as feels comfortable
The Sucker
- This creates a tantalizing sucking motion for your partner and requires quite a bit of control on your part.Wanna try it?As your partner goes to thrust, push down like you’re going to push them out. As they pull out, squeeze like you’re going to suck them back in. Find a rhythm and try playing with different paces, moving slower and faster- You can even do this while you and your partner are orgasming – you’ll be sure to come back for more!
Building Strength and Resistance . This is just a beginner’s intro to Pompoir. If you want to learn more about the specifics of Pompoir exercises, there are quite a few books out there like ‘The Pompoir Book’ and ‘The Fine Art of Pompoir’.Like any sort of exercise, it can take time to refine your *ahem* technique. But unlike pumping iron in the gym, you’ll probably enjoy this one no matter what stage you’re at !